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Overcoming the end of a marriage takes work

Making the decision to divorce is a major life-changing decision. You have to think carefully about how it is going to impact you now and into the future. One thing that you might not realize is that you will have to deal with various aspects of the decision even after the split is over.

Nearly half of marriages end in divorce, so you aren't alone. There are various ways that you can cope with the end of the union, you want to make sure that you don't make any mistakes as you proceed.

Avoid making more big decisions

Now isn't the time to start a new job or make a major move. Instead, let things settle down and then make an informed decision about what's best for you and your children. There is a chance that you will feel lonely after the divorce, but you can't let this encourage you to start a new relationship too soon. Instead, take time to recover from the divorce and determine what you want out of your life.

Work through your emotions

Your emotions are going to be all over the place after the divorce. You might feel a sense of loss because of the split. Anger, sadness, joy and excitement can all come over you in waves. You might be tempted to suppress these feelings. However, you should address them as they come up so you can try to heal. Find a trusted family member or friend to talk to about everything if necessary but make sure that this person won't go back and tell your ex about what you said. Some people choose to work with a mental health professional during this time.

Don't live in the past

You can't live in the past when you are going through a divorce. No matter what happened between you and your ex, you need to forgive your ex and yourself so you can move forward. The past won't change but letting go of it can be beneficial since it will enable you to live your life without having to worry about what happened before.

As you go through the legal process of divorcing your ex, make decisions that are best for your needs. The choices you make now can make a difference in the course of your new, single life.

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